What to trust - Actions or Intentions?

Not everyone who's harsh is your enemy. And not everyone who's gentle is your friend. Some people's words may sting, but their intent is to protect, guide, or help you grow. And then there are others whose tone is sweet, but their intent is to harm, manipulate, or use. Don't go only by how someone acts - try to understand why they act that way. Intentions matter more than appearances. Never lose a precious bond because of an occasional rough tone. And never keep a dangerous one because of constant pleasant words. And yes - the best ones to keep close are those whose intentions and actions are both positively aligned towards